I may have bitten off more than I can chew. I am in medical school, which alone tends to drive people into scheduling mayhem. I am in student government. I am on the official basketball team at my school. I am preparing for an AMSA talk. I workout regularly, I continue to write, I cook and do my laundry and spend time outside when I can. My caffeination is at an all-time high, and my sleep is at an all-time low.
In this current whirlwind of existence, I am acquiring two important concepts. I am forced to learn these lessons now but I know they will help me when my schedule becomes more reasonable.
First, the word “no.” It’s simple, but it’s not easy. We like saying yes to people because we care about the social acceptability of it. It becomes easier to say yes and cancel later than it is to say no to the initial offer, but we create problems when we rely on this method. We lose agency over our own schedule and we become people without integrity (that is, saying we will do something and doing another). It is a favor to yourself and to those around you when you comfortably and confidently say no. You get the mental freedom and they get the clarity.
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